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The Chronicles of Narnia: Making Fantasy Real
With Father's Day just around the corner, everywhere we turn we are bombarded with advertisements suggesting a wealth of things families should buy for dads. But this year, instead of asking for some sort of material object you want, do something that will engrave your paternal love onto the minds and hearts of your children.

Start something that will stay with them for years, something that will open them up to a positive view of the world. They say that young people these days are ungrateful to their parents; this generation is given so much stuff and so little time, especially with dads. So this year, let us instill gratitude in our children. Instead of getting yourself a new toy like a DVD or a bike or some new golf clubs, that is, instead of getting something to amuse yourself with, get something that will create a lasting bond between you and your children. Buy and read your children C. S. Lewis' series, The Chronicles of Narnia. It will make your family resemble a tree -with leaves and branches united to a trunk.

The Chronicles of Narnia follows the dramatic confrontation between a band of relatively powerless, little heroes and a number of powerful and even superhuman villains. The heroes are normal children, simple, comfort-seeking children, and yet they are humble enough and sincere enough to manage great accomplishments against the villains, who are cunning, supernaturally powerful, and extremely diligent, and who never waste time. The children must choose to fight nobly and heroically, sacrificing themselves and their desires to the demands of obedience, humility, and honor. In most cases the goal is to find, establish and defend the rightful authority and order of creation that should reign in Narnia, an order which has been broken through their own doing. This sets the stage for an epic battle of good against evil, a battle the children must wage first against themselves, for they are at times forgetful of their task, usually because of some form of comfort-seeking, and they are continually harangued by the ruses of evil. The children are also typical in that they are superficial, uninformed and unprepared for the battles they are to fight, and as a result, they must make the most difficult moral choices, for their enemy is clearly more informed about human nature and its weaknesses than the children are. Nevertheless, they are sincere and loyal children, with noble intuitions of right and wrong, honor and shame.

Such children as these are pitted against cunning enemies, enemies with a tremendous ability to throw the children into states of moral confusion with the deftly manipulated tools of illusion. Such masters of illusion are enemies of freedom, creating and then enslaving their subjects with a blend of agnosticism, skepticism, and fear, and in some books, especially the later ones, the agnostic and skeptical environment is created and held in place by a strange pact among the elements of the world, elements at once mercenary, blasphemous and pragmatic to the point of murderous.

Caught between the two main, warring groups of characters, masses of creatures stand by like spectators, watching on and awaiting their fate and the fate of their world: some tired and sick; some frightened and jaded; and some actually stand by enjoying the entertainment of destruction. The children can only triumph over such evil and indifference by making the right moral choices they constantly face.


I read the 7-book series of The Chronicles of Narnia to my own 4-year old boy, and he absolutely loved it. And what was even more exciting is that he learned a great deal from it. Honesty, courage, loyalty and service come knocking at the hearts of children when they read these books, because in them, Lewis does what we all wish we could do: he makes goodness attractive. The good guys are good, but they are not pushovers. They fight. They get involved. They have adventures and they conquer. The book is filled with the healthiest lessons of life, for children and for adults. Through exciting adventures in the woods among talking animals and strange creatures, the author deftly opens up a world for the parent to bring to the child, the world we all want them to know, the world which calls them to be brave and courteous and good and to fight for what is right and just in the world, counting on the help of God, especially in the little things of each day.

Disney is set to release a film version of Book 2: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe in December, and most likely, you will be taking your children to see it. I think that there is a message in this book, and it is this: take care of the little things, because they have tremendous consequences; do not neglect virtue in the small incidents of every day, for it is precisely the little things that determine one's final, momentous, eternal destiny. This book is an allegorical and rendering of the suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ and how it is related to the role of character and virtue in the moral struggle of life to attain happiness, a struggle in which the tiniest act has great consequences, because each act directs the agent toward one of only two possible ends: heaven, represented by Aslan and the ultimate celebration of the children and good animals; and hell, represented by Jadis and the paralyzed gloom and slavery of her victims and subjects.

The main character of The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe is a young man with flaws, but they are very ordinary flaws, really no different in degree from those possessed by you or I. Edmund teases his sister just a bit too much. And when he is proven wrong, he lies. And little lies lead to serious betrayal. Also, Edmund likes to eat junk food. What could be more ordinary than that? Normally, the consequence is no more than indigestion. But Edmund likes it just a little too much, enough to accept it from a perfect stranger who, from the beginning, shows signs of untrustworthiness. His little greed in such a little thing leads him to be a little less prudent than he should be around this stranger, who turns out to be a creature of superior intelligence, and who takes advantage of his seemingly insignificant flaws, using them against him until he is a slave and a prisoner condemned to death, a death from which he can only be saved by the sacrifice of Aslan's own life.

Likewise, the virtues great and small of others come to his rescue, with the result that children will see something in this book that they need so desperately to see today and are not getting: they see that their own actions have consequences, that every act, even the most secret, has a consequence, and that, therefore, the moral life is a adventure, a glorious adventure in real life available to them right now, wherever they live and in the circumstances in which they find themselves today. The entire story, therefore, is Lewis' attempt to make the moral life attractive to the young. And I think he succeeds.

Disney's The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe is going to be one of those films children will remember for years. So this is our chance to take an active part in something our children are destined to experience, love and remember.

Warren Hinkson is the father of two young children, an English professor, and co-author of The TeachNarnia Guides to The Chronicles of Narnia. His books and articles on teaching the Christian and literary aspects of Lewis' novels can be found on his website: www.TeachNarnia.com
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